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9 Apps I Can’t Do Without

Since getting my smartphone, an iPhone 4S, back in November, I’ve quickly moved into the 2010s with everyone else. I can now receive email through my phone (no more waiting for an hour on dialup to load email!), text more often because it’s easier, and most importantly, make use of great apps.

But great apps for any smartphone aren’t just the social networking apps or the games, as I’ve found out. Below are the apps I’ve used to literally revolutionize my life–all of them are free, and most of them have both iPhone and Android versions!

Alarmed

alarmed This little app has transformed the way I complete tasks and keep up with obligations. I have used it so far to keep up with household chores, pet flea treatments, meetings, reminders to do small tasks, and tons of other stuff. Now my house stays cleaner, things get done on time, and Mr. Kitty stays flea-free! I find that it’s a much more organized reminder app than the onboard Reminders app for iPhone–you can see your reminders organized by day instead of the haphazard way you entered them into the app, which for me is a big bonus.

Recently there’s been a big fuss about Alarmed dropping its “alarm clock” feature, but I find that the app is great even without the alarm clocks; plus, there’s a separate alarm clock app by the same developer, so you can download that as well. All in all, a wonderful free app.

iPhone version
Yoctoville.com (developer)

Flashlight

flashlight Before I found this app, I used to trip and stumble trying to get into my house every evening. Living deep in the forest, with no outdoor lighting to speak of and lots of tree roots crisscrossing the yard, made it an adventure just trying to get into the house at all, never mind getting in without a broken ankle. With this app, which uses the flash from the iPhone’s camera to provide light, I can now see easily and avoid any obstacles.

This is a very handy thing to have, not just for navigating tough front yards, but for finding small lost objects under furniture, for changing your tire on the side of the road…you name it! You can dial the brightness up or down, and turn it off in-app when you don’t need it anymore. The other cool thing? It’s got a compass included!

iPhone version
Android version

Google Chrome

googlechrome Okay, okay, I know, what is an iPhone user doing using a mobile version of Chrome? Simple: because Safari is slow as molasses for no reason. I downloaded Chrome after a few weeks of using Safari on the iPhone, and haven’t looked back; it loads faster, doesn’t take up near as much memory (it seems) as Safari does, and I have the option to go Incognito with my tabs if I so wish. (Now if I could just make Chrome my default browser on the iPhone, we’d be ALL good to go. LOL)

Android version
iPhone version

RedLaser

redlaser For saving money, RedLaser is a great little app. Scan a barcode off any item with your phone camera, and RedLaser will tell you what the cheapest price is for online shopping and local shopping. Using this app, I saw that I could save 3 bucks off my favorite deodorant just by buying it online, and could save almost 4 bucks on cat food by buying it from a different store than usual. These days, saving a few dollars here or there is a BIG bonus!

Android version
iPhone version
RedLaser (app site)

Echofon for Twitter

echofon I never thought I’d find an app that let me access all my Twitter accounts through one interface without logging out and back in. But Echofon does exactly that–it helps me manage my Twitter accounts for my various websites, lets me know when new people have followed or mentioned me on any of them, and I can post and read Tweets as normal. It’s been a real time-saver!

(Admittedly, I don’t know if the regular Twitter app does this or not–I could never get the Twitter for iPhone app to download, so I went with this one instead. I’ve been happy with Echofon’s performance, though!)

iPhone version
Android version (beta)

BibleGateway

biblegateway For those of you who want to have a quick reference for Bible verses literally at your fingertips, the BibleGateway app (from biblegateway.com) is a must-have. I find myself using this during church sermons, when I need to follow along with the pastor’s Bible verse references (and when I need to keep myself on-task, lol). All you have to do is open the app and search for the book, chapter, and verse you want, and the verse appears within its context! You can also choose which translation you want, or you can start reading the Bible from Genesis to Revelation, all within the app itself.

BibleGateway.com App Page

ScanLife

scanlife For all those neat QR codes you see posted everywhere, here’s the scanning app I use. It scans even in low light, and not only takes you to the page the QR code leads to, but also lets you share to Facebook, see what codes other people have scanned, and keeps a history of the past codes you’ve scanned in. (You can also make your own QR code for your contact info!)

Scanlife App Page

MacHash

machash If you own any Apple products (like the iPhone), MacHash is a wonderful news aggregator for everything pertaining to the Mac brand. Pulling from several dozen Mac-news websites, it arranges them by most recent, and you can easily scroll through, reading headlines. When you find a page you like, just click on it to see a quick summary, and then go on to read the full article if you so choose.

Don’t think this sounds all that exciting? For the iPhone, at least, this app has served as a troubleshooter–for instance, I had a weird problem with the Do Not Disturb feature not turning on properly. I read a few articles, learned how to fix it, and in 5 minutes’ time the issue was resolved! Moral of the story: having a mobile news source for mobile technology can definitely be a good thing!

Download for iPhone

IMDB

imdb Being able to pull up info on movies and TV shows without having to open a web browser first? EXCELLENT. The interface for the IMDB app is clean and easy to navigate, and provides you not only with the search function for the database, but also movie showtimes near you, featured articles, and the message boards as well. Great for impromptu movie outings as well as proving your friends wrong (or right) about a movie or TV show.

IMDB.com App Page

My Favorite Clix, part 8: Checkmate Knight (White)

At only 29 points and 3 clicks of life, this little Clix figure may not seem very impressive at all. But ever since she was printed, I’ve found myself using her on many of my teams, and being very glad I did; she’s not just for ranged teams, but for any sort of team, as you’ll soon see!

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Checkmate Knight (White), #007 out of Brave and the Bold. Image Credit: HCRealms.com.

The first thing that drew me to this figure was the low point cost in exchange for all that you get. 29 points, for a 9 attack, 2 damage, 8 range character? Not bad! These are not godlike stats, of course, but they’re fairly good, given the cheap point total. You don’t usually find these kinds of numbers under 30 points.

But combine the fair-quality stats with the powers she’s given, and you suddenly have a much more useful figure. Enhancement first click, and Outwit for two clicks more–it’s worth pushing her once if you absolutely need an Outwitter, and if you don’t, the Enhancement helps your other ranged pieces do more damage. Her Super Senses on defense do shield her from some harm, as well (though don’t rely solely on that; best to play her carefully, positioning her fairly far back since she’s got 8 range).

Sure, her defense values of 16 and 15 are a little low for tournaments these days, but these too can be worked around. You can play her as strictly an Enhancement piece, hidden in the middle of a group of shooters, and she’ll never see battle herself…or, you can position her beside a Defend piece that has a higher defense so that she gets a little extra protection. Either way, played right, she can help several of your other figures do more damage at range.

And, if you need her as an Outwitter, her 8 move will help her move more easily around the map for clear lines of sight (and she keeps 8 move for all her 3 clicks of life). That is very handy, I can tell you right now. Not only that, it’s fairly easy for a Medic to heal her, if you need to have her back on Enhancement. In fact, the only way this piece won’t work for your team is if you try to make her a first-string attacker; she’s much better off Enhancing or Outwitting from the mid- to back-field.

My Personal Recommendations

If you run a lot of ranged teams and need a little more damage output, or if you’re in need of a fairly cheap Outwit piece, Checkmate Knight White could be your best solution. With her low point cost, she’s fairly easy to fit into a team build, and her Enhancement/Outwit combo makes her versatile and useful for just about any team.

Serving in the Church: A Solution to “College Student Drift”

All over America, and I would guess worldwide, Christian churches lose quite a few of their young college- and career-age members to lack of attendance. This is not a new phenomenon; this age group, the very age group I’m in, is a difficult age to reach, because many of us go away from home to college and are in a totally new environment, or we’re busy with beginning our careers. But even the churches in college towns can’t often get much steady attendance from students who attend the local college(s). I should know–my church is right near a college town, and it’s rare for more than 5 people to attend either our Sunday School class or our coffee shop fellowship meetings.

Church officials and writers have been researching and writing about this issue for a long time; one recent article I found, College Students and Church Attendance: The Facts, states that church attendance by college students falls drastically as they get farther along in their degrees. Other articles seek to explain this phenomenon: Why Students Abandon Their Faith: Lessons from William Wilberforce and Why Teens Leave the Church Upon Entering College are two examples.

Many people who examine this issue blame several factors for this phenomenon:

  • The young adults are not “strong enough” in their faith to keep attending without parental guidance
  • Higher education’s atheistic teachers/”Godless” standpoints are influencing them
  • “Worldly” influences, such as drinking, partying, or peer pressure, keeps them from going to church

I admit, all these negative influences do get in the way of faith; I would add that the heavy mental load of pursuing an education (and later a career) also keep some of my age group away from the church during these years. BUT I also believe that the church in general falters when it comes to reaching college/career-age people. It can either fail to recognize or refuse to believe that its behavior toward this age group could be pushing their young adult members away, too.

An Unresponsive, Uncaring Church: A Major Part of the Problem

What do I mean by this? Think about a child, being brought up regularly attending church. He or she grows up, moving from level to level in the children’s program and then in the youth program. But once that young person graduates from high school, there is suddenly no real “place” for them in the church. There is no dedicated “young adults’ area” in most churches, not the same way there are dedicated “children’s areas” or “youth areas.” There are likely far fewer of their church friends left in the Sunday School class they get assigned to next, since so many kids leave their homes (and home churches) and go to college somewhere far away. In short, their church experience becomes far less inviting, far less familiar, just because their age changes. It’s almost like the church forgets about them, or forgets to have a ministry waiting for them and their friends when they return home.

I saw it happen to friends during college; one of the girls on my hall was very sad upon returning to the dorm one Sunday night. I asked her what happened, and she said “I went to my home church this morning, but it didn’t feel like home anymore.” There was no “group” of people her age to meet with, no one who greeted her as if they had missed her; it was as if the church had closed their minds to her when she started college. Though she attempted to reconnect with her home church a few times, she eventually quit trying to go to church altogether by the end of the year.

I’ve felt that same sort of isolation, that same sort of “twisting in the wind” feeling, as a college and career-age person myself. What if you walked into a church, even your “home” church, and had no idea where you belong, and no one greeted you or helped you, but looked at you as if you had been judged and found lacking? Would you ever want to come back? That is what many of my age group face when they go to church–they feel like they are an unwanted presence. When the church makes a college student or young career person feel like he or she is insignificant and unwanted, they do the age group as a whole a major disservice.

It’s important to remember that not all of us are out drinking every night, partying every Friday, and having random sex with strangers, nor are we all “losing our religion” because of being taught by atheist or open-minded teachers. And not all of us are so weak in our faith that we can be torn away from the church within a few weekends of being in college. True, these influences are out there, but being rejected by the church or being shoved aside is a bigger threat to college-age faith than any of the influences I just named.

My Solution: Help Us Feel Useful and WANTED!

The best way for college- and career-age people to be included in the church is to help them begin to serve in the church, assisting and even taking over ministries which need attention.

This might seem a strange suggestion at first. Why give the charge of ministries over to people who might not even be able to be there every Sunday? Why take ministries away from people who have handled them for years?

Actually, I think this line of thinking is part of the problem.

The Church Needs Young People to Serve, and We Need to Feel that the Church Wants Us

Firstly, if young people are the future of the church, as we so often like to say, then they must have experience in helping with the church’s various ministries, so that they know how to run the church when the elders have passed away. Not trusting younger folks with any assistant positions because they’re somehow “vulnerable” and “immature” will only cripple the church in the long run, because you’ll end up with a generation or two of people who simply do not know how to run these ministries at all.

Secondly, it seems at least to me that people tend to hang on to their volunteer ministry “jobs” within the church for a long time, even refusing to have any help with it at all, because it’s somehow “their” ministry. The problem: when that person dies or leaves the church, there is no one there to take up the torch and carry it again, because no one else knows how to handle that ministry. This is a HUGE problem for church longevity, not to mention the sin of pride. (Think about it: if you can’t let go of a ministry because you believe you’re the only one who can do it “right,” then are you doing it for God, or doing it for pride’s sake?)

I am most certainly not advocating the removal of dedicated and faithful church members from their long-held volunteer posts simply because younger people want to take over a ministry–that would be no kind of reward for their years of Godly service. But, perhaps as part of that Godly service, these longstanding, mature believers could use their experience to mentor and guide younger ones. It’s not about “training your replacement,” necessarily, but about creating a legacy of service and passing it down to the next generation of church members.

College/Career Age Class: Church Assistants and a Mentoring Program in One

My suggestion is: what if the older youth had something like a “shadowing” program to learn about the various ministries of the church? By asking those who run the various ministries, like the Children’s Ministry, the Music Ministry, Outreach, Sound Booth, Wednesday Night Supper, Men’s Work Day, etc., the youth could learn more about what it takes to run those ministries. Then, they could individually figure out for themselves which one they’d like to help with.

Then, once the students reach college/career age, they could begin assisting with those ministries, and even take some of them over if deemed necessary by the church leadership. Along the way, they would be mentored and guided in these ministries and in their faith by mature believers, receiving a spiritual higher education at the same time they are aiding the church itself. Not only would such trained young people be a boon to their home church, but they might even feel confident enough to help out a church local to their college area as well because they have this past experience.

Why do I suggest this course of action? Because personally, my position as a Sunday School teacher has given me more confidence within the church, and has made me accountable. If I’m not there every Sunday, it affects others negatively, and people miss me; if I want to be a good teacher of the Word, I must be knowledgeable about it and be able to point others to interpretations of it. I am one of the rare few college- and career-age people who has stayed within the church, precisely because I feel valuable and vital to the church’s workings. And I’d feel safe in guessing that others of my age group would feel the same way if given leadership or assistant positions in church ministries.

I recognize that not all college/career-age people have leadership skills, nor are all of us necessarily the most dependable. But God gives each of us a gift to share in ministry. If a church takes the time to help a young believer develop that spiritual gift and use it to aid the body of Christ, then it’s ultimately for the betterment of that young person as well as the church they attend. And it all glorifies God in the process.

Bottom Line: Connect with Us, and We’ll Connect with You

To combat these negative influences that so many church writers speak of, the church must be a vibrant presence in a college/career person’s life. The church must welcome my age group, must be willing to mentor and nurture such believers at a time when we need our church family the most, when we need a body of believers to be a part of. I think this is one of the best ways to make the church essential and relevant to my age group. Serving and being a vital part of the church has helped me grow in my faith, and I believe it can help my whole age group come back to be part of the body of Christ, too.

My Favorite Clix, part 7: LE Ghost Widow

Following in the vein of kick-butt support pieces I like, here’s one that can do double-duty as an attacker and a Medic. She’s been a favorite of mine and a staple in my collection since I first saw her played in a tournament…the LE Ghost Widow.

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Limited Edition Ghost Widow, #004 out of City of Villains. Image credit: HCRealms.com

First off, her Flight and Phasing are an amazing pair of movement abilities for a piece with Support. Not only can she Phase away from enemy pieces, but her Flight makes her able to carry a wounded friendly character with her when she goes. Many is the time I’ve used Ghost Widow to carry a beaten-up close-combat piece away from the action for a few turns, to heal them up!

Second, those two clicks of Poison are more trouble than they seem. Phase her into the middle of a group of bad guys, and next turn they all take 1 Poison damage if they don’t have a defense modifier. 😀 LOTS of fun to Poison-bomb a group of Clix like this…well, if you’re the one playing Ghost Widow, at least. 😉

Third, if she doesn’t get smashed for 5 damage right off the bat, she’s very hard to kill. She has both Steal Energy AND Regeneration on fourth click, which is absolutely hilarious–either Steal Energy up to second click, or potentially Regen all the way back to top click. Choosing which to use all depends on what you need from her at that moment in the game; she’s versatile.

Fourth, her high 18 defense on first click and Super Senses on second and third click make her annoying to hit. And. if you do manage to damage her, you’ll be taking a Mystic damage, courtesy of Arachnos team ability. (Yep, she’s another Regenning Mystic like Vet Shade, except she’s got Support and Flight to go with it!)

Sure, her combat numbers aren’t the greatest, especially in these days of 10 attack, 17 defense, and 3 damage. But as a tertiary attacker (with a 6 range) and Phasing Medic, she’s wonderful. All of the above, and she’s only 54 points? That’s right!

My Personal Recommendations

If you want a Medic who can both fly your hurt people easily out of battle and take a few shots when she’s not healing, then you’ll want a Ghost Widow as part of your collection. She keeps herself and her team alive with Support, Regeneration, and Steal Energy, and she does a little damage here and there with her range, her Poison, and her Mystics team ability. Of all the different teams I’ve played her on, she’s usually been the last one standing, or the one who’s keeping my pieces in fighting shape while the other guy’s team is either KOed or limping around the board. All in all, she’s 54 points well-spent to support a team and do a little damage as well.

For Anyone Dealing with Bullies

I was bullied for 9 years in public school, and I’ve shared about my experiences, both emotional and physical, before on this blog. The worst part about being bullied, though, was the fact that I believed everything my bullies said about me, because I could not fathom that someone would tell me lies about myself. Others’ opinions mattered so much to me, because I believed that others dealt with me as honestly as I dealt with them.

If I could go back in time and tell my past self anything, it would be the following:

“Why do you believe what the kids at school say? They pick apart your outfits, but are they fashion experts? They bully you about your weight and what your body looks like, but are they fitness gurus? They make fun of you when you miss questions on a test, but are they at the top of their academic class? What makes them fit to judge you?

That’s right–they’re NOT fit to judge you. They are lying to you. They are just insecure about themselves, and trying to establish their own identities. They want to fit in with everyone SO BAD that they are willing to stomp on your head to scrabble up the social ladder. Pity them, don’t listen to them. Theirs are the voices of desperate, pathetic people who just want to be important.”

If you’re dealing with bullies, no matter how old you are, read the previous two paragraphs over and over again until you believe them. It’s truth. It’s a truth that took me almost two decades to figure out for myself, but it is truth. These people just want to be important, and they nitpick everything about other people because they’re terrified of being nitpicked themselves. Debunk everything they say, because it’s worthless.

So, the next time someone bullies you, pity them, mentally debunk their opinion, and keep going. And, if they give you an opportunity to speak, ask them “Why are you so obsessed with me and what I do? I certainly don’t care about you.” Being told that they are acting ridiculous and pathetic may just shut them down, especially if you answer that way consistently. These bullies may just become decent people later in life, but until then, you’ll just have to let them be pitiful little haters until they grow up.

This all sounds harsh, I know. But bullying is a real problem, and it begins with insecurity. Instead of caring so much about their opinions, just point out their insecurity and leave them to stew in it. They’ll learn and grow up, someday. Trust me–I’m actually Facebook friends with some of the people who bullied me back in the day. 😉

My Favorite Clix, part 6: Vet Shade

Generally, I tend to like Clix figures that are less subtle, more obvious to play; the “one-trick ponies” are staples of my collection, for instance. But there are a few in my collection which have become favorites for exactly the opposite reasons–they are subtle and more versatile. Vet Shade is one of them.

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Veteran Shade, #063 out of Unleashed. Image credit: HCRealms.com

This little guy is a 73-point surprise. At first glance, he’s basically Batman-esque with Mystics team, with the combo of Stealth, Smoke Cloud, Willpower, and 6 range. Most players underestimate him for this; what real
damage can a 6-range, 9-attack, 2-damage figure do in this day and time?

Once he’s hit for 2, however, the first of many surprises shows up–Shade loses the Stealth in favor of Phasing, and gains Outwit, while retaining Smoke Cloud and Willpower. This enables him to move around the board easily, setting up new lines of Outwit possibly every two out of three turns, and generally evading capture. Even though his attack and defense are rather low during these clicks, that doesn’t matter so much–like Experienced Destiny, his skill lies outside of combat entirely by this point on his dial.

If he takes 1 more damage, he lands on another surprising click: a Phasing/Telekinesis/Outwit combo. This is absolutely hilarious. Outwit the defense modifier of an enemy character and fling an object at them, or fling a friendly character closer to them…any way you slice it, Shade on this click facilitates battle and makes it easier for a team to conquer.

And then, we get to the final clicks, where the last crazy combo of powers awaits…Phasing, Telekinesis, Outwit and Regeneration. If you need him to, he can potentially Regen his way back to top dial, or you can keep him as a Phasing TK piece for another 3 clicks. (He’s almost more versatile back-dial than front-dial, and he’s definitely more of a pain back-dial. :D)

All of this, and he is a Regen-able Mystic, which is painful to his opponents in and of itself. He can Phase or Stealth around, hurting enemy characters who dare to damage him, and then he can just run off to Regen or be healed by a Medic. (This Shade was once the last remaining member of my team in a 2-hour game…and I came back and won it, thanks to his Regen and Mystic team ability.) He works great as a tentpole-team solvent, and even better as a swarm-team solvent. Sure, his dial numbers are not as great, but for a figure from Unleashed, he’s not bad.

My Personal Recommendation

If you want to add a little finesse, tactics, and versatility to your team, and you’ve got 73 points to spare, consider adding a Vet Shade. Don’t add him thinking he’s going to be a secondary attacker, or even an attacker at all–add him as a stealthy Smoke-Clouder or a mobile Outwitter/TKer, or use him to whittle down heavy hitters with his Mystics team. One thing’s for sure, Vet Shade will make it very tricky for your opponent to win!

My Favorite Clix, part 5: Vet Cheetah and Vet Mockingbird

Today, I’m profiling two Clix pieces instead of one, because in most if not all of my games, I play this Cheetah and this Mockingbird together. As two powerful but differently-styled close-combat pieces, they complement each other quite well.

Vet Mockingbird

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Veteran Mockingbird, #018 out of Sinister. Image credit: HCRealms.com

Keeping in mind that Vet Mockingbird was printed in the mid-2000s, when HeroClix numbers were all traditionally a little lower, she’s an amazing mobile close-combat piece, great for tying opponents’ figures down for a few turns while being able to Leap/Climb away at her leisure. Her 19 defense up close, courtesy of Combat Reflexes plus a natural 17, makes her infuriatingly hard to hit, and the 2 damage with Close Combat Expert can even break through Invulnerability and Impervious.

Her Flurry clicks mid-dial aren’t bad, either (though you won’t break Invulnerability without a Perplex). And her back-dial Leap/Climb helps you get her back to a Medic for a quick heal, which is more likely to happen given her 14 defense last click. Add to all this her free-move Team Ability (Avengers) and her 2 range with double targets, and you have a surprisingly versatile figure for only 34 points.

Vet Cheetah

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Veteran Cheetah, #018 out of Icons. Image credit: HCRealms.com

Where Mockingbird has mobility and versatility, Cheetah has brute force attack and damage. Charging for 5 spaces and using an 11 attack to deal possibly 6 damage with Blades? It’s awesome, and it has happened in my games before. And if she gets hit for 2 damage off top click (which is entirely likely, given that she’s charging into the fray), she can Leap/Climb for 10 spaces, getting her well out of the fight and possibly even back to a Medic.

That Battle Fury on every click used to be only a hindrance, keeping her from being carried and making ranged attacks. Now it helps her avoid being Mind-Controlled as well as ignoring opponents’ Shapechange, which keeps her from being stuck beside an enemy piece, unable to attack. Though she has no team ability and a defense that steadily lowers, her mid-dial attack spike back up to 11 helps offset that. All of this for 55 points, which is rare!

Why I Play Them Together

Ever since I first started playing, pretty much, I’ve had Vet Cheetah and Vet Mockingbird in my collection, and I’ve generally played them together for most of the games. They cover each other’s flaws well; Mockingbird’s lower attack is covered by Cheetah’s higher attack, while Cheetah’s tendency to get locked in place early on is covered by Mockingbird’s generally higher mobility. If you have them attacking the same target on alternating turns, you quickly have a KOed target. And if one of them needs to get away from battle for a heal, the other one can usually take over combat for a little while, thanks to them both having Leap/Climb for much of their dials.

I have tried to play them separately, but I usually find my way back to using them together on the same team. They are both fairly cheap close-combat characters, making them easy to fit onto a team build (together they are only 89 points–a bargain considering all the functionality you get). And somehow, it just makes sense for the two of them to play together, despite not being in the same comics universe. 😀

My Personal Recommendation

If you need a cheap but powerful close-combat character with high attack and damage, you’ll want Vet Cheetah as part of your collection. With a longer dial and higher attack than most pieces of her point cost, she’ll survive longer and even take out higher-cost/higher-strength pieces while she’s surviving. (Trust me on this–I used Vet Cheetah to take out Vet Icons Supes once. It was FUNNY. :D)

However, if you need a cheap, highly mobile tie-up piece who deals surprising damage and is harder to catch than a buttered eel, Vet Mockingbird will serve you well. She doesn’t survive quite as long as Cheetah in intense battle, but then again, with that Leap/Climb, she doesn’t have to stay in battle if she doesn’t want to. 🙂

Awesome Blog Alert: GeekyPosh.com

geekyposh_side Interested in beauty products? How about home decor? Geeky products and articles more your speed, or do you like to read about pets? How about the occasional post on the Christian life?

If any or all of these subjects strike your fancy, then I recommend GeekyPosh.com as a blog you’ll want to add to your reading list. Run and written by the awesome Jenny, GeekyPosh is like a website version of a super-cool older sister, who is always on the cutting edge of both style and functionality.

Not only that, but Jenny also has written some pretty cool life posts as well; I enjoy her posts about her cats and about her faith, because they make her blog feel more personal and heartfelt. And with just about every article, she includes lots of pictures, making her writing at once more informative and more attractive to the casual viewer. (I could learn quite a lot from that strategy… :D)

I promise Jenny hasn’t paid me to say any of this–I just admire her work and thought more people should know about her blog, since she’s a fellow freelance webdesigner and developer. Go visit! 🙂

My Favorite Clix, part 4: Experienced Destiny

One of my favorite Clix pieces of all time is not one that deals a whole lot of damage. In fact, she’s got 0 damage and 0 attack, and only 6 move and 13 defense at her best. But I love Experienced Destiny for two reasons: Probability Control and Super Senses.

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Experienced Destiny, #023 out of Xplosion (and also #029 out of Universe). Image Credit: HCRealms.com
Experienced Destiny is very much a “one-trick pony” kind of figure–in her case, the “one trick” is being a 23-point free-move Prob piece who’s more trouble to kill than she appears to be.

You wouldn’t think Super Senses and Prob would make Exp Destiny so difficult to defeat; I beg to differ. In many games, both casual and tournament, I’ve seen opponents waste so much time going after Destiny while my other pieces systematically tear their teams to shreds–and they simply can’t hit her very often. Either they hit and she Probs them into a miss, or they hit and she Super-Senses out of it. (And the rare times she does get hit, I usually get her back to a Medic for a quick heal. >:D )

True, she can only move 6 spaces, but those are 6 spaces you won’t have to pay an action for, courtesy of Brotherhood of Mutants’ team ability (free move). And true, she’s only got 13 defense, but she shouldn’t be on your front lines of battle anyway. If positioned well on the battlefield, this little figure can make your Clix life a lot easier–and make your opponent’s Clix life lots more difficult. 🙂

Not only is Exp Destiny pretty easy to fit into a team build, but her cheap point cost and simple abilities also enable her to be part of a “pit crew” strategy. (“Pit crew” pieces are purely team-support characters, usually cheap and featuring Support, Outwit, Perplex, or Prob.) Play Exp Destiny with a Paramedic, a Con Artist, and a Rookie Black Panther, and you’ve got one of the cheapest ways to include every major team-support power on your team.

Now, why do I recommend the Experienced over the Rookie, at 20 points? See the Rookie’s dial, below.

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Rookie Destiny, #022 out of Xplosion (and #028 out of Universe). Image Credit: HCRealms.com

Simple: for 20 points, you get only 2 clicks of Super Senses and Prob, instead of 3 clicks with the Experienced. Saving the 3 points is a fine choice if your team build requires it, but if you’ve got room for 23 points, definitely upgrade–it’s worth it.

My Personal Recommendation

If you’d like to make the best use of Probability Control as a power, it’s best to use a figure that has Prob almost to the exclusion of anything else. Destiny is a prime example. She’s not meant to be an attacker, nor a defender–she’s meant to facilitate the rest of her team’s attacks, and frustrate the opponent’s attempts to attack. You won’t find a cheaper Prob option who keeps Prob for 75% of her dial length!

Sometimes, We Christians Don’t Act Very Christlike

I catch myself doing it sometimes, and you’ve probably caught yourself doing it too. Judging, gossiping, disapproving, or feeling superior to someone else…and much of it happening within the church, supposedly a haven of compassion, forgiveness, and love.

As one who has spent time both outside the church and inside it, I find this puzzling, but not surprising. We’re all humans, after all, and we make mistakes; we get irritated at each other, say things we shouldn’t, and let darker emotions lead us to make snap decisions about others. But too often, we Christians often act as if we never sin in this manner (because that’s what it is: sin). Instead of forgiving, loving, and showing compassion to other believers within the church (or to nonbelievers outside it), we sometimes show off a more judgmental, self-righteous, and downright isolationist attitude.

Problem #1: Pride

For instance, heated arguments in the church can crop up over the most petty things, like “who gets to direct this ministry,” “what music we worship with/don’t worship with in this church,” “what kind of decorations to use/not use,” etc. And more hurt feelings (and subtle grudges) result from this than we care to admit. We all want recognition for what we’re doing for the church, but sometimes the pursuit of that recognition can obscure the reason WHY we’re doing it.

Sometimes I just want to scream, “What does it matter, as long as it’s for God?” And then I catch myself wanting a solo in the next choir special. It happens to us ALL, even if we’re trying our best to live as God would have us live. Pride and the desire for recognition/praise is a human thing, but I believe it must be battled, especially in the church where our primary intent is to praise God.

Problem #2: Judgmental Thinking

We’ve all thought it at one time: “So-and-so doesn’t belong in MY church. They aren’t like me at all.” There’s that one person whom you just don’t feel comfortable around, who just gets on your nerves. Maybe they’re too casual and loud with their worship, or maybe they look you up and down as if they’ve just judged you and found you lacking. Maybe they don’t dress “right” for church (read: not the way you dress), or maybe they seem like they want to turn the church into a rigid political institution with God just kind of thrown in there somewhere.

When we feel uncomfortable around others, we tend to judge them more harshly. It happens to me just as it happens to other Christians; there have been times when people have said stuff within the church and it just crawls all over me. I wind up thinking, “How can THEY call themselves Christian? How dare they! I’M certainly more Christian than they are!”

And there’s the problem. When we start comparing others to ourselves and finding them lacking in comparison to us, we’ve taken our attention completely away from God. When we focus on how much WE’RE holy and how righteous WE are, we utterly forget to worship God because we’re too busy worshipping ourselves. That’s where judgmental thinking really comes from, and it’s an insidious little thing that creeps into everyone’s mind at some time.

Problem #3: Isolationism

Have you ever noticed that we Christians can function as a rather insular group? Sometimes it feels, at least to me, as if churches are less like worship centers and more like exclusive social clubs, where you have to have a special password to even get in the door, and when you get in, everybody is divided up into little cliques that don’t really talk to each other.

I agree that it is important to surround yourself with other Christians, especially if you’re new to the faith, so that you don’t fall back into sinful lifestyles and habits. But sometimes we go a little too far to the other extreme, even refusing to talk to or hang out with people because they “aren’t Christian,” as if being in the presence of nonbelievers will somehow “taint” us.

Jesus Himself caused a little controversy when He went to eat with Zacchaeus the tax collector (Luke 19:1-9). People begun to rumble about Jesus “[going] to be the guest of a sinner” (NIV translation). But Jesus, in this instance and many others, went to people who didn’t necessarily believe in Him yet, breaking bread with them and being with them. And most often, His very presence among them and His serene, compassionate attitude changed their hearts. Why, then, do we Christians sometimes act as if we’re too “holy” or “righteous” to go among nonbelievers, when the Son of God was not afraid to do so?

Coming from my own experience, I believe that most of the answer lies in our human desire for comfort and familiarity. Doing things that are new and challenging requires courage and deep-rooted security in oneself, and I can definitely say I lack that in most areas of my life. I don’t feel qualified to verbally witness to others, for instance, because I can’t quote chapter and verse off the top of my head (I had to take quite a while to look up the passages I just referenced in the last paragraph, for instance). And I’m sure I’m not the only Christian who has these secret fears; sometimes we don’t reach out to nonbelievers because we are afraid of rejection, anger, or being caught without knowledge.

However, the other side of the issue must be addressed, too–when we have already judged someone else harshly for being a nonbeliever, we are more likely to be unfriendly to them. Is that what Jesus would have us do? I can tell you from personal experience that some of the harshest people I’ve ever been around have also been very rigidly Christian–so rigid in their faith, in fact, that I thought they would splinter apart if they moved a fraction of an inch. They were hard to get to know and harder to talk to about faith; everything I talked about, it seemed, met with a disapproving glare or frown. Is it any wonder less people are interested in Christianity, if this is the only face of Christianity they ever see?

Jesus’ example, however, shows us all that sometimes all we need to be is compassionate and approachable. Shyness or visual signs of disapproval can only further isolate us as Christians from the world. I’m not saying we go to every rough-and-tumble bar, knock a few back, and end up falling out of our own faith practice, but we do need to go where people need to hear about Jesus, and we do need to share about Jesus in a personal, gentle manner. And, after all, who are we more likely to be friendly with–a stranger who doesn’t talk to us at all, a stranger who stares daggers at us, or a stranger who smiles, talks and laughs with us?

Summary

I think these three big problems really hurt the Christian church and its perception in the secular world, as well as hurting worship and feelings between believers. Pride, judgmental attitudes, and isolationism are hard to root out–believe me, I know, since I’ve been trying to expunge such behavior from my own life. But I truly believe we as Christians will be better examples of Jesus’ teachings if we strive to be as forgiving, compassionate, and loving as He taught.