All posts by Robin

I'm a woman in my early thirties living in North Carolina, USA, and I have a lot of varied interests; I love creative writing, music composition, web design, surfing the Internet, thinking out loud, and gaming. And yes, my glasses are crooked. :)

The Creative Personality, Banned Toys, ’90s Gaming, and Writing Generators

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The Creative Personality
What defines the creative person, in the way they conduct their lives, think about situations, and express themselves. Very insightful!

Banned Toys and Games
A list of 5 toys and games that were yanked from shelves because of dangers or bad design. Was surprised to see Slip ‘n Slide in this list–but then again, I was never very good at slipping ‘n sliding anyway. XD

Online Gaming in the ’90s
According to the author of this (ROFL-worthy) image: “Everytime I hear people complain about online gaming, I wish they could experience my pain of online gaming in the 90’s…”

LanguageIsAVirus.com’s Writing Games
A website with many different tools for writers who are hopelessly stuck in writer’s block. From the Sentence Tree to the Poetry Gyroscope, from the Poem Collage to the Sentence Builder, there’s fun tools for just about every writer of every type of written word!

The Best Offense is a Good Defense–Wait, What?

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A quick, efficient win is usually prized among gamers, especially when playing competitively. But let me bend your thoughts a minute. What if, instead of looking to win quickly, you wanted a SATISFYING game? A game that took a little while but afforded a win you could actually savor?

This second approach is my philosophy on gaming. I don’t want just a quick, easy win–it feels like cheating, or like eating cotton candy for dinner. I’d rather have a game which makes me think and allows me to socialize a little, too. I favor long games–which means that I play defensively.

Thinking Defensively Rather Than Aggressively

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If you want to play defensively, you’ve got to think long-term, because aggressive players will burn themselves out quickly. “Aggro” Magic: the Gathering players, for instance, soon run out of cards in hand and have less options to defend themselves. Aggressive Clix players usually wear out their first-string attackers by mid-game, leaving themselves only their second-string attackers and their support crew (if that).

So, a defensive strategy that wins has to have 3 basic prongs:

  • High defenses/support to stay alive long-term
  • Strategies that punish the other player for attacking
  • Good resource management/game control

Defensive Strategy Examples

Magic: the Gathering

  • Life-gain to offset opponent’s direct damage
  • Graveyard recursion to foil any milling or discard
  • High-toughness creatures to both block combat damage and deal a little combat damage of my own
  • Mill, board wipes, discard, targeted destruction, and other minor control elements to stay alive

HeroClix

  • A couple of Medics to heal wounded figures
  • Several sources of Probability Control and Outwit, to reroll dice and get rid of particularly damaging powers and abilities
  • A Mystic or two and some Wildcards, to punish the opponent for attacking me
  • Figures with high defenses (18+), or figures with Energy Shield/Deflection or Combat Reflexes

The Reason I Include Control With High-Defense Strategies

As I have learned from experience, if you focus on nothing but defense, you will get controlled and manipulated into destruction. Black and Blue Magic decks with a lot of control elements will keep a high-defense White deck from doing anything, for instance, while 6 or 7 damage from Vet Icons Superman holding an object will KO any support piece before you can use it.

As a defense player, you have to have a modicum of control included in your strategy, but you don’t have to make it irritating–just a strategically-placed and protected Windborn Muse can be enough to stop aggro, and a Story Circle can prevent even the fastest of Burn decks from hurting you once it’s out. Likewise, using Outwitters and long-range pieces can help your defensive HeroClix team win the day.

Summary

Defense is often discounted in most collectible card and miniatures games, but it’s a key strategy in a long-term game. Sure, if you want a 5-minute win, aggression is still your best way, but if you like longer games with more chances to socialize and more chances to laugh, playing “de” might be your best way to do that.

Trust God and Take the Risk

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Ecclesiastes 11:1-2
1 Cast your bread upon the waters, for after many days you will find it again. 2 Give portions to seven, yes to eight, for you do not know what disaster may come upon the land.

I was very, very confused when I first read these two verses. Throw bread on the water and it’ll come back to you? Ew, mold. Give portions to seven, and even eight? Does this mean I donate a bunch of stuff to Goodwill and work at the soup kitchens every Saturday?

Well, not exactly. Here, the Teacher (the writer of Ecclesiastes, who might or might not have been Solomon), lays out a little business sense in the middle of his text.

#1: Take Calculated Risks to Grow Yourself

“Cast your bread upon the waters,” Biblically speaking, referred to merchants shipping their grain by boat. It was a dangerous and risky thing to do because boats could easily sink–but those merchants who risked it often were much more successful than those who did not risk anything, because they were willing to try. In our own lives, the times we’ve risked much of our own efforts in order to gain something even more valuable (a friend, a new love, a job, an accomplishment, etc.) often stand out in our minds as the times we truly understood our own mettle. Not to mention that it was a thrill to take a chance, and that it possibly led to more happiness.

As a habitual non-risk-taker by nature, I try to make sure that the thing I desire most is just about in my hand before I reach to grab it. But the few times I’ve really launched myself out and lunged for something, something I didn’t want to wait any longer to grab, I’ve surprised myself with unexpected passion and tenacity, as I strove to hold on to what I wanted. Yes, sometimes I had to let what I wanted go; sometimes it slipped from my hand. But I was better for having reached, and that’s what the Teacher is referring to here.

#2: Try Everything You Can–Don’t Limit Yourself

The second verse is just as hard to fathom. Who or what are we supposed to give portions to? Well, in fact, this relates back to good business practice as well. We have to try out many different ventures, “diversify our efforts,” you might say, because you never know which one will work.

Think about it–we don’t just fill out one college application, or one job application. We fill out many at a time, in order to get a broader “net” and possibly a better chance of getting a hit. If we pin all our hopes to one idea and that idea sinks, what happens to us? We are more easily discouraged and start to falter in taking risks. By contrast, if we have many ideas and no big hopes pinned to any of them, we can move on from the failure of one and maintain faith that one or more of the other ideas will yet bear fruit.

Where Does Faith Come Into This Picture?

Speaking of faith: “Where is the faith in this passage?”, you might be asking. “This sounds more like life advice and business advice rather than Christian living advice.”

Oh, but it is Christian living. The more we take risks and diversify our efforts, the more we learn to stop fearing and start trusting God. When situations are literally and figuratively out of our hands, we learn to place our trust in God and lift up our concerns to Him.

When we have no way of influencing the outcome of something in our lives, we can become more comfortable with praying about it and knowing that God has a perfect plan for everything. Risk helps test our faith, and broadened efforts helps reduce risk as well as develop our abilities in areas we might not have trusted otherwise. We begin to live a more balanced (and more faith-based) life as a result.

Why I Chose to Write a Multi-Topic Blog

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When you think of “blogs” you generally think of personal writings, such as the writing about somebody’s day-to-day life, such as Jenn.nu and GeekyPosh.com. And if it’s not a blog about day-to-day life, then perhaps it’s a blogging-platform-driven website based on a topic, turning it into a one-topic blog, such as The Simple Dollar or WPCandy.com.

My blog, therefore, a blog about six different topics, is rather strange in comparison. Why, given these two other (somewhat easier-looking) styles of blogging, would I choose to create a blog this diverse?

Reason #1: Tried Personal Blogs and One-Topic Blogs Before–and Failed

Yes, you read that right. I actually have failed at doing blogs several times before Crooked Glasses came to be. And I have tried both types of blogging styles that I outlined above.

After trying to run a WindowsLive Space, a LiveJournal, and a personal site, I discovered that my personal life was just not interesting enough to warrant writing a post about every day. Some days, I literally thought, “If I post today, it’s going to have the same content as the post yesterday.” Seriously, nobody needs to read a whole week (or month) of posts along the lines of “Today I woke up. I ate something. Then I watched TV before going to meet my boyfriend and hang out. Then I came home and wrote this blog post, then went to bed.”

It bored me to tears to think about writing this drivel, so I had to come to the hard conclusion that it would also be boring for people to read. (I also never kept a steady diary during my childhood for the same reason–it bored me to write identical diary entries day after day.)

In between trying to make a personal blog work for me, I also tried a couple of topic blogs that are best left forgotten, basically about my favorite TV shows at the time. What frustrated me about writing one-topic blogs was that I quickly ran out of content–I ran out of things to say about the topic very quickly when I felt pressured to write about it every day. It wasn’t that I didn’t like the topic anymore or that I got tired of it; instead, I struggled week to week to try to find new nuggets of information that my visitors would like to read, and I ended up feeling like all I was writing was retreads of old articles.

Reason #2: Wanted One Site that Covered All My Favorite Things

Like Julie Andrews’ character in The Sound of Music, I have a lot of favorite things; I am interested in webdesign, Internet surfing, and creativity, but also in Biblical study, gaming, and a bit of philosophy and commentary here and there. I didn’t want to have six different blogs, though–I wanted one place, one login and one blogging platform installation, that allowed me to share about all the things I love.

I also wanted my blog to stand out, and I knew that a multi-topic blog would be a lot broader and more interesting to viewers, as well as providing them a window into topics they might have never thought of or heard of before.

Reason #3: Keeps Me Writing and Doesn’t Let Me Get Bored

The last reason I chose a multi-topic blog is because this keeps me writing. Every week, I challenge myself to write six new blog posts, six new examples of fresh and interesting content, and it helps me hone and trim my writing down to its essential basics instead of allowing my words to run amok. It doesn’t let me slack off or procrastinate (as I am so prone to do in other areas of my life)–this is a personal commitment to working on one of my best-loved crafts.

Writing about six different topics also keeps me from being bored or running out of content. I don’t drag myself through writing six posts about the same topic–I am energized by writing one post each about my favorite topics.

Summary

Blogging doesn’t have to be based in your personal life or in just one topic. Indeed, if you’re interested in many different topics, a multi-topic blog might be just the way to make your mark on the blogging community. (I don’t claim that Crooked Glasses is all that popular just yet, but you never know!)

Expanding the World Inside Your Book

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As I’ve progressed further and further in writing my first novel, I’ve found myself thinking about the world my characters live in rather than just about the characters themselves. After all, a book with great characters is one thing, but if they live on blank pages rather than a colorful fictional world with its own backgrounds and settings, the characters feel a little flat. We as authors have to provide information about our book’s “world” so that its characters’ actions make sense.

The following parts of a fictional world, in my experience, need to be fleshed out:

Geography/Topography

What does your book’s world look like? Where are the mountains, beaches, deserts/plains, forests, oceans, volcanoes, and so on? This information impacts the characters’ ability to travel and adds to the mythos of the world you’re creating.

Political Divisions of Land

How is the land divided up, politically? Are there separate countries, states, provinces, regions, etc.? Determine where these boundaries fall in your fictional landscape, and what that means for your characters.

Weather Patterns and Seasons

If your book’s world has different seasons than our Earth’s, you have to note that in your book, otherwise readers will be very confused! Also, any weather patterns that impact your characters’ travel plans and daily lives should be described.

Governments, Social Classes, and Social Structures

Is your book’s world largely governed by representatives, a monarchy, or some other structure? What about the social classes–is there just “rich” and “poor”, or are there subtler divisions, like “upper middle class,” “lower middle class,” etc.

Also, think about how people’s jobs might divide the population into classes, such as those dedicated to a particular deity, those who work in service industries, etc.

Races, Ethnicities, and Genders

How diverse is the population of your book’s world? Is it largely the same as our world, or are there more or fewer races/ethnicities? Are there just two genders, or are there more? (Hey, in fantasy worlds, you never know!). These decisions will impact your characters either indirectly or directly, depending on your book’s events.

Society Type

Is your fictional world based in an agricultural or technological society? In other words, are they mostly farmers or mostly not-farmers? This will determine what all types of conveniences your characters have available to them, such as running water, toilet facilities, and electricity, among other things.

Technology

What kind of technology is available to your characters? You’ll have to determine that too, and note that for your readers so that they know what parameters your characters are working within. It’d be weird, for instance, to be reading a book that’s supposedly about an alternate reality of ancient Greece, and then come across a Facebook reference in there somewhere.

Religion(s)

What religion(s) are present? Are there even multiple religions? What is the deity or pantheon of deities like? What are the rituals associated with each religion? Outlining your world’s basic belief systems will be very helpful in determining how your characters will interact with each other on a spiritual basis; it may not be necessary for all plotlines, but a subplot or two may require it, so it’s good to have it fleshed out beforehand.

Where to Contain All This Information?

Keep a written record somewhere of this world-building information–for instance, I have several digital files on my computer with these details, kept separate from my novel but backed up in the same places. But you might find it easier to build your fictional world using a journal, notepad, or even a visual inspiration board to help you remember what places look like, etc. Whatever helps you access this information and reference it most easily!

Summary

Certainly, building a fictional world is difficult and requires a lot of questions to be answered. But if you want to make your book a fully-enriched experience, this background work will help readers appreciate your plot and characters.

(And even if your book is largely set in our world, it still helps to directly express the truth of the world as you experience it–other readers will be approaching your book with a different take on the world and will need to know how you see it to understand your book!)

Politics Explained, Einstein Pic, Choice of the Dragon, and Plagiarism Checker

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Politics Explained
A fairly thorough (and very funny) look at most of the political belief systems out there these days. (The description for “Bureaucracy” is my favorite… so much LOL and truth.)

Make Your Own Theorem
Use this funny image generator to envision Einstein writing anything you want on the chalkboard behind him. (Hours of sophomoric humor ahead) πŸ˜€

Choice of the Dragon
This cool multiple-choice Flash game helps you develop a dragon of your own based on your answers to its questions, and then you can begin an adventure with your developed skills stats! Fun for any experienced Dungeons & Dragons player, or a great way for role-playing newbies to get into a character’s head!

Plagiarism Checker
Not only can this be a tool that your teacher/professor can use to see if you’ve copied your paper online, but you can check your own writings (such as articles, blog posts, etc.) to see if somebody else has made off with your ideas and posted them on another website!

Why “Casual Gaming” is Actually Great

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This just in: you don’t ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO win at every game you play. Casual gaming IS a viable option!

Current Gaming Culture: Win All the Time or You’re “Not a True Gamer”

Unfortunately, these days, casual gamers (like me) often get treated as an inferior breed by winning-obsessed meta-gamers. Those who treat winning at a game like their career are venerated, after all; their motive seems to be “If you’re not playing to win, why play at all?”

I only have to look as far as Magic: the Gathering and HeroClix to find this infectious mindset, but it’s invaded all sorts of gaming. We all naturally want to prove we’re strongest, we’re smartest, etc., in all areas of our lives, including gaming.

Competitive Gaming = Anger and Frustration

Personally, however, I’ve had to get out of competitions in about everything I do. Not just because I don’t win/succeed as much as I’d like (though that’s part of it)–it’s because competition turns me into a horrible person. I yell, I bite my fingers, I stomp around, and otherwise express unwarranted anger that other people should never have to witness. When my efforts lead to failure, I explode. I’m just not a good Christian when I do anything competitively, and that unfortunately extends to gaming, too.

Casual Gaming = Relaxation and Fun

To combat my anger in gaming, I’ve become a casual gamer, and I’ve found it to be a much more enjoyable experience than trying to be competitive. I’m actually much more suited to casual gaming–I like exploring around and coming up with my own ways to solve puzzles, not just copying what everybody else did to get through a level. (This is possibly one reason I get so angry in competitive gaming, because it pretty much requires you not to be creative, at all.)

As I’ve continued to game casually rather than competitively, I’ve noticed a few other perks:

Other Benefits of Casual Gaming

  • Socializing with others takes the place of just “beating the game.” I love being able to joke with my friends about the game instead of being so concerned about the “big win.” Not to mention that I have the mental freedom to come up with new strategies that my friends haven’t thought of–in casual games, they can appreciate it without being angry that the strategy is beating them.
  • In a casual game, you can piddle around and find all kinds of new things. If you’re not worried about completing a game in a certain time limit, for instance, you can just explore and wander around–that’s my favorite part of any console game or large online game.
  • You can try new strategies and add to or abandon them as you see fit. Playing casually lends a “sandbox” feel to any game–since every idea is equally worth pursuing, there’s more room for creativity and less inhibition about trying your new ideas out.
  • You can use the game as an escape rather than a worth-proving exercise. Gaming competitively does not let me wind down–it tenses me up and makes me feel worse about myself when I lose, because I put a bit of my self-worth into winning. When I game casually, I let go of that concept and just enjoy the time spent not working. πŸ™‚

Why This Might Not Work for Everybody

As cool as casual gaming is for me, it might not be the natural playstyle for everyone. There are just some people who thrive on competition–and I might be describing you! For some, competitive gaming is their forte and casual gaming is an exercise in futility; indeed, casual gaming might be irritating rather than fun.

If you like competing with others and it doesn’t send you into fits of rage, that’s wonderful. However, neither form of gaming is superior to the other. It just depends on what you get out of the game, whether you like the challenge or like the escape from everyday life.

Summary

Casual gaming is a worthy pastime, great for anybody who prefers using a game for socializing with friends and escaping from the pressures of normal life. Us casual gamers may not be winning any “speed gaming” or “fastest A button in the West” prizes any time soon, but…that may not be the most important thing!

God? Who’s That?

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Judges 2:10-13
10 After that whole generation had been gathered to their ancestors, another generation grew up who knew neither the LORD nor what he had done for Israel. 11 Then the Israelites did evil in the eyes of the LORD and served the Baals. 12 They forsook the LORD, the God of their ancestors, who had brought them out of Egypt. They followed and worshiped various gods of the peoples around them. They aroused the LORD’s anger 13 because they forsook him and served Baal and the Ashtoreths.

In this second chapter of Judges, a new generation of Israelites has grown up, and many members of the older generations, the “old-timers,” as it were, have passed on. The older folk were the ones who wandered in the desert for 40 years with Moses and followed Joshua (Moses’ successor) around in ancient Canaan to defeat the indigenous tribes; they had seen firsthand how God was with them and carried them in times of fear and trouble.

Without the older folk to guide them, the younger generation knows little of their tribe’s history or of its God. They grow up not knowing that God was truly with their forefathers, and as such, they begin to explore into other religions, including the ones followed by some of the surrounding tribes in the area. They start worshipping Baal, Asherah (possibly Ashtoreth as this translation reads), and many other gods, leaving behind the moral codes and worship practices that Moses had laid down decades before. If they were asked about God, they’d probably say the title of this blog post: “God? Who’s that?”

We Ask This Question, Too

Sadly, many of us today are quite like the younger generation of Israelites in the Book of Judges. We have not seen any miracles for ourselves, so our reasoning is that God must not exist. We have not felt God’s presence in our lives, so we think that he must be just a fairy tale. We have been hurt before by people calling themselves Christians, so we feel assured in saying that the Christian God must be just a fallacy.

From this reasoning, we begin to justify our forays into other religions, other practices and beliefs that may or may not be injurious to us, to try to find our “personal truth” amid the chaos of the world. I certainly did this during my 11 years outside the church–I dabbled in astrology, numerology, and Tarot cards, and I studied many different religions trying to find the truth. But I was somewhat disappointed to find that I never felt like I truly worshipped anywhere. I never really stopped believing in God as my church background had taught me, but He almost seemed too far away for me to grasp. He felt like a vague presence in the stratosphere somewhere, not personally real and relevant. (That has since changed, due to many startlingly real experiences with God, not the least of which was the spiritual healing which took place after my teaching career was flushed down the toilet.)

Much like our parents get annoyed with us when we go off and do our “own thing” rather than following their advice, God got justly angry with the Israelites for being unfaithful in their worship. He had guarded them and supported them, brought His people out of Egyptian slavery into His “Promised Land,” given them strong leaders to guide them, and THIS is how they act? As my mama used to say when I got sassy or rebellious, “We give you a lot of freedoms around this house–you just don’t appreciate them!” Though I don’t claim to know the mind of God, I figure His response went along the same lines. πŸ˜‰

God Isn’t Called Heavenly Father for Nothing

For those who have never known God, this passage and its surrounding chapter might seem overly harsh–God seems bent on punishing His people! But this righteous anger is part of His role as Heavenly Father. Parents can’t just give their kids tons of privileges with no discipline; you end up with kids that don’t respect anything or anybody, and expect everything to be given to them. Likewise, parents can’t punish all the time and never spare their kids even a smile; you end up with kids that are terrified to make a mistake, terrified to disappoint, terrified to live.

God, as our Heavenly Father, gives us a perfect balance of discipline and support. Both types of treatment remind us that He is still in control, even when we think we control everything. Yes, He disciplines us when we forget Him, but He never stops loving us enough to help us.

Living Without Portable Computers

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What would happen if we had no smartphones, tablets, or laptops–no portable Internet?

I know that seems like a silly question, given that we used to live this way less than 20 years ago. But Internet and technology have become so embedded in our lifestyle that we literally don’t know what to do with ourselves when we lose access to that link with the world.

I faced this in 2011 personally, with the damage to and ultimate loss of my laptop–suddenly, I didn’t have that portable entertainment, that mobile Internet, that convenient writing and publishing device at my side anymore. It was a mental challenge…and yet, more and more, people are going on “diets” from their smartphones and laptops (and even computers in general). Either that, or they’ve lost their access to said devices and have to figure out how to live life without them (temporarily or permanently). (See: articles from Business Insider, Fast Company, Huffington Post, 43 Folders, Mens’ XP, and even WikiHow!)

My point: sometimes you NEED a break from technology. Sometimes you NEED to stop staring at a computer screen. Here’s what I learned as a result of losing access to my laptop for several months:

  • I didn’t have as much neck and shoulder tension because I wasn’t hunched over the keyboard
  • I started practicing my handwriting again because I had to–I had gotten so out of practice that even signing my own name felt odd
  • I started spending more face-to-face time with my boyfriend, family, and friends
  • I learned to stop depending on Internet access quite so much for answers/entertainment
  • I found out that my personal work could wait a little while, or could be done in other, less digital ways

This Isn’t EASY, but It’s NECESSARY

The palpable loss of technology can set us on our ears, figuratively speaking, but every once in a while we need to be reminded that we can be functioning humans without having little screens to accompany us everywhere. It’s a struggle at first, but it can be done, as the above referenced articles and my own personal experience prove. “Staying connected” is one thing, but Internet addiction is real (and I’m still having to break myself free of it)!