1 John 4:19-21
19 We love because he first loved us.  20 If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar.  For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.  21 And he has given us this command:  Whoever loves God must also love his brother.
John doesn’t mince words here: if you hate another human being, who is your sibling in the family of God, then you aren’t showing true Christian love to anyone.
This is an extremely hard truth to realize, especially since most of us have prejudices of some sort when it comes to other human beings. But given that all genuine love comes from God, if I refuse to show love to another person, I’m refusing to show God to them. And if I refuse to show God to another person, how can I call myself a Christian?
This verse hearkens back to two other places in the Bible–John 13:34, when Jesus commanded His disciples to “love one another as I have loved you,” and even back to Mosaic Law in the Old Testament. We are not only commanded to love our families and friends to show God to them, but to love each person as a brother or sister in Christ…even if they haven’t quite made it into the fold yet.
This is a simple command in words, but very, very difficult to live out. It’s part of the reason that being a Christian can be a struggle; our human natures want to hate those who have hurt us, inconvenienced us, or crossed us, but God commands us to love and forgive. It takes diligence and a daily commitment to behave like God has commanded, but it’s necessary if we want to show God’s love to the world.